joder
annoy
jolt
to disturb suddenly
+
-er
verb suffix
Joder means to annoy and can be thought of as jolt0 (to disturb suddenly0) + -er1 (verb suffix1), like something that jolts or disturbs you repeatedly.
verb
  1. annoy
    To annoy or bother someone
    No me jodas con tus bromas. // Don't annoy me with your jokes.
interjection
  1. damn
    Used as an interjection to express frustration or anger
    ¡Joder! Se me olvidó la cartera. // Damn! I forgot my wallet.